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irresponsible

i dont know why things i hear or see will easily get on to my nerves and makes me really agitated over it.. just get to hear that one of my friend quarrelled with her girlfriend.. and another friend has some misunderstanding with her boyfriend.. and MAIN REASON was another 3rd PARTY!! my goodness! how can you not be agitated when you hear these? and really pity those who suffers are girls..

guys.. let me analyse this from a girl's point of view.. when your girl get to know about you being close with another girl, first reaction is usually that they will keep it to themselves first.. BUT..... that doesnt mean that they are not JEALOUS over it!! it's just that JEALOUSY is a in-plosive kind of reaction.. it takes time for them to explose.. BUT.. never TEST it!! cause you wont know that they will explose anytime without giving signal..

BUT somehow, in the two cases mentioned above.. the guys have tested their girl's tolerance and patience level.. yes, you can try making them jealous and let them feel your importance.. BUT, never overdo it.. cause you wont know that you will be the ONE SUFFERING in the END..

be it whether your relationship happened to have a 3rd party or not.. i feel that it's a responsiblity concern thing.. know your limits of being close to a girl if you have a girlfriend already.. so what you just treat her only as a good friend.. you wont know that FEELINGS will DEVELOP even in cases that you think that it's IMPOSSIBLE.. well, nothing in your life is IMPOSSIBLE.. split up the word ... it's spell I'M POSSIBLE!!!!! get the word?

why makes things so COMPLEX when love is actually a SIMPLE thing if both parties are responsible?? it takes two hands to clap.. so, it also means it will takes 2 person to make the relationship get going.. if you really cherish the other party, never take the bet of trying to make another party jealous.. YOU WILL SUFFER!

just one word of advice.. NEVER PLAY WITH FIRE.. you wont know when you will be burned to death.. and... NEVER EVER BECOME A 3RD PARTY.. heard of CAUSE and EFFECT ma? dont wish to be bear the consequences? then dont cause it to happen.....

hais! cherish one another's presence.. dont ever take things for granted!!